You just got engaged and reality has now set in that you dream wedding cost more money than you have to spend.  Those invitations you have been eyeballing are $5.00 a piece and you are inviting 200 people to the wedding.  This just isn't feasible...so you decide you are going to embark on the DIY Journey.  I mean how hard can it be right? Well, I have a couple of suggestions for any and all DIYers out there.

1.  Allotting enough time - this is so very important not just with wedding DIYs but with all DIYs.  We always think we have enough time and then we realize that easy project takes a lot more time when you are doing it more than once.  Additionally some DIYs can't be completed until something else is finished which cuts into your "development time". Account for this in your overall timeline of projects. 

2.  Be Realistic - some things you just can't do cheaper than buying it. So evaluate your projects and all the materials needed before you begin.  Do you already have the tools needed...how much material do you need to create your master piece, do you know what you are doing or will there be a learning curve.  Once you take this into consideration you will be able to realistically determine if you can completely the project yourself and if it makes sense to do so.

3.  Find Resources - there are tons of sites/forums out there that can direct you to things you will need.  Some things I learned along the way is that brides often sale items after their wedding, so if you need vases for 24 tables buy them used...no one will know.  There are lots of projects out there that others have already tried. They share their successes and failures and also suggestions.  Make the time to do your research.

4.  Be Willing To Compromise - sometimes we dream beyond our abilities, that's just reality.  Be willing to let some things go if you can't achieve them or can't afford them.  Your day is really about you and your Groom/Bride not the stuff.  Determine what are must haves first and then you can supplement with other things if you choose.

5.  Day I'd DIYers Sit Down - on the day of your wedding you should get someone you trust to handle day of coordination.  The Bride nor her Mother nor her Bridal party should be coordinating anything on that day.